ok now.
ppl say i tok too much in my posts.
i will shorten them AFTER this one =x.
well hopefully lols.
ahemmm.

Now lets tok abt the topic which somehow knocks me in the head and gives me goosebumps.
Eddu and i have been talking and have somehow concluded somethin.
well this conclusion doesnt make sense AND can be on agreeable yet disagreeable terms.
either way im still gonna say it.
shldnt we actually make ourselves worthy if we wanted to be part of someone's life? based on attitude and all tt.
nth to do wif a garrenteed very stable job or wad.
its just i find tt if u wanna so-call jio someone there r at least 3 things tt u shldnt do =/

1. Not being urself
not being urself and acting like somethin ure not is so not gonna bring u anywhere.
sure it will bring u till some point, but it wld nv bring u far as u and tt person u wan to be wif so much wld be living in lies.
besides, how long can u last being someone totally not u?

2. Arrogance
Bragging too much aint gd for health =/
even if ure the most popular or smartest person around it doesnt confirm u a relationship wif tt someone or friendships wif ppl.
so wad if ure the so-call best around?
caring abt urself , boasting too much + hurting other ppl's feelings?
man wif tt attitude i dun tink anyone wld wanna spend the rest of their lives wif ya.
too much of u and too little of them aint gonna help =/

3. Not respecting others
If u do not respect others, how can tt person trust tt u wld respect him/her?

there are many other points which i tink tt those ppl attracting the other party shldnt do.
but these are the basics i guess =/
well to me lols.
u guys may tink so much differently den me.
but hey, im just an ordinary girl making a point here >.>
if ur attitude is like garbage i do not tink tt anyone wld feel secure being wif u =/
u may treat tt person very well now but hu noes.
u might just attack tt person in the near future without a 95% garrenteed 'ok' attitude >.>

well for a girl tt doesnt wan a relationship any sooner,
i tink tt even if a guy treats me very gd but treats others like duno wad, or even worse, practice discrimination, i dun tink i wld even tink abt being wif him =/
i believe in equality lol.
as in, can treat me better than the others la. tt i dun mind. hehs.
but like just minding ur own business, caring abt ur own happiness and not trying to help others be happy as well, i tink its realli... selfish lol. -note tt im just making it sound nice-

even if the feeling is there, without the sense of security i dun tink anyone wld wanna get into a relationship.
to hav a higher chance of getting a 'yes' frm tt someone, i tink u shld get ur attitude or other aspects checked first.
besides, if tt person has a 'okok' attitude or have a stinky attitude, im sure u wun wanna bring her/him down to tt of low quality or even lower quality.
it isnt easy to be part of someone's life.
like ppl say, life is precious.
if ur life is precious, im sure theirs is as precious as well.

hehs besides, im a person hu defends those hu r being 'shot' at for no valid reason.(ok im out of point here)
for eg. hmmm...shld i mention his/her name here?lols.
tink better not.
still, even if tt person isnt realli nice to me or kips annoying me, i still will defend him/her IF he/she is innocent lol.
of course i wun poke into every single matter larhs.
in some cases i just cannot stand looking at the unjustified suffer for no reason.
and so this is where i come in =x
ahem.
hehs im just an ordinary girl trying to make the world a better place i guess? lol-.-''

i hate guys hu pity themselves too much.
and moreover, tinking tt they are innocent and are the onli victims around when they are not.
if u guys wanna find sympathy for this kind of things, find it somewhere else.
coz i aint gonna giv u any.
dun act blur infront of me coz i can see thru u.
just becoz i act as if i duno doesnt mean tt i dun.
u aint the onli person tt can act in this world.
and besides, i dun always use my 'very gd' acting skills for no reason.
i may seem 'POWDERFUL' but im most definately not.
im not tt great neither am i tt vulnerable.
*goosebumps*

i especially dislike ppl not admitting tt they are in the wrong.
sure ppl these days want their reputation to be high and all tt.
but isnt not admitting ure in the wrong a much faster way to diminish tt reputation tt u try to uphold? >.>
wads even worse is tt u have done smth wrong, but ure acting as if u did somethin right and u tink tt THAT someone is totally at fault. =/

sheesh. i gotta stop toking abt these things -.-
oya.
ps: u cant run away frm wad u have done.
yes im referring to u mr David Seeto.
so dun say tt im not helping u in any way or act as if im referring to some other guy.
u shld be thankful tt i ate somethin tt made me in a gd mood.
if not it wld not have turned out this nice.
lying to get close to someone isnt gonna help at all.
murmuring things which u tink tt cannot be heard but want it to be heard isnt gonna bring u any further.
when ppl giv u advice u shld get them into ur head.
dun act as if nobody toked to u abt IT and explained to u clearly wad ure up against.
this aint a drama show or some soap opera.
eddu will noe very well wad i mean.
if u dun truly noe wad i meant,
u can ask him ^^

note: this post does not onli apply to one guy onli.
and i didnt say everything.
so there are many things tt u all have to look out for urself.
hey, life is a learning journey.
wad do ya expect? >.>
note: i sometimes am guilty of those mentioned abv.
and im trying to correct wad i have done >.>

finally, after 1 hr ++ of tinking and typing -making sure tt i dun type in things tt wld cause a bigger flame- , i have typed finish this post at 9:06 PM on 26/8/07 :D